The best man speech can be as difficult or as easy as you make it. If you want to contribute to the memorable wedding day and wedding reception of the newlyweds, then a well-planned speech is definitely in order. A Best Man speech may be the last place in the world you want to wing a speech and tell a story about the groom yuo think is funny, but it soon becomes apparent that the anecdote is in poor taste. Too late. Plan your Best Man Speech carefully and have enough notes to guide you through your speech without reading word for word.