Maybe you and your girlfriend were separated because of reasons that are beyond your control, and now you want to know just how to get your ex girlfriend back in your arms because you realize you can’t live without her. One thing you could do is the “mystery approach”This approach deals with making yourself available for her and wooing her again. Wooing her but not showing any signs of desperately wanting her back. How to get your ex-girlfriend back using this style and be effective depends on how you carry yourself emotionally and gracefully in creating “the mystery” back into your relationship.